My Bridgerton Experience: A Candid Viewpoint after Binge-watching!

June 29th, 2024

If you haven’t watched Bridgerton yet, you’re not alone—I was in your shoes just a few weeks ago, wondering if the series is worth my streaming time. My preference for Regency-era shows has mainly been the artfully produced classics like Emma, Rebecca, and Great Expectations—unless Julian Fellowes is behind a period production (Downton Abbey anyone?). But after seeing the Bridgerton Season 3 ad every single time I logged into Netflix, I finally decided to dive in! So I started the series, and had no idea what to expect that a friend advised me to watch Queen Charlotte first so I could get the series in a linear fashion. That would be my recommendation to you as well—although it doesn’t dive too deeply into the connections you’ll find in Bridgerton itself. Some questions actually remain unanswered and were ignored from Queen Charlotte, but you will still like it this way!

A Note for History Lovers: It’s important to highlight—especially for history enthusiasts—that Bridgerton does not strive for perfect historical accuracy. The show certainly takes the poetic license bit too far, incorporating characters and events circa 1813-27, but not everything aligns with historical records (for instance, there’s no mention of the Napoleonic War). While the setting is predominantly Regency-era, Bridgerton is better categorized as Alternate History/Fantasy, rather a historical fiction (I saw a lot of vintage china patterns definitely not belonging to the era – see this post). If deviations from historical accuracy in shows are a deal-breaker for you, Bridgerton might not be your cup of tea. Since it’s not based on a classic piece, I personally didn’t mind this intentional and deliberate blend of fact and fiction, although that was my primary gripe with the latest adaptation of Emma.

A Quick Season Summary (No Spoilers)

Season 1: The Duke and I

The show introduces us to Daphne Bridgerton’s debut into society and her strategic, yet passionate, relationship with the Duke of Hastings. Amidst misunderstandings and societal pressures, the mysterious gossip columnist Lady Whistledown keeps everyone on their toes.

Season 2: The Viscount Who Loved Me

The second season shifts focus to Anthony Bridgerton’s quest for a suitable wife, bringing forth another compelling love story. Meanwhile, the enigma of Lady Whistledown’s identity continues to stir intrigue.

Season 3: Romancing Mister Bridgerton

This season centers on the blossoming relationship between Colin Bridgerton and Penelope Featherington. As they explore their evolving feelings, the season delves into themes of identity, self-discovery, and societal pressures. The ongoing mystery of Lady Whistledown’s true identity adds an extra layer of intrigue and drama.

My Take on Bridgerton

The episodes are full of Regency-era (uberly-styled though) glittering courts, lavish rooms, opulent décor, gold-rimmed teacups, ditzy patterned floral arrangements, and oh, the beautiful gowns! Bridgerton family drawing room is one of the most beautiful rooms, and every time it was on the screen, it was a delight to watch!

Other than the tangible beauty the series offers as a period drama, the story is light, a typical English drama. I loved the first two seasons for the story and characterization of the constant cast. Season 3, in my opinion, was not as conclusive as I would have liked—maybe a director’s tactic to keep the interest. Rightfully so, since we do have the 4th season, so it did not let me down as much as I have heard it has some others. Colin Bridgerton’s evolution was captured greatly after he returns from travels, but his interactions with Penelope lacked the essence of how the relationship developed. In the defense of the third season, I have to say, it came at a time of crisis and complexities for most of the cast: self-discoveries, betrayals, new love, saving, and damaging relationships—not to mention the ghosts appearing from the past and the difficult decision to follow one’s heart or desire.

Characters I Love

Among many, my favorites are Eloise, Penelope, Lady Whistledown, Queen Charlotte, Lady Danbury, Genevieve Delacroix, and Colin. Here’s why:

Penelope Featherington navigates high society with a keen awareness and strategic mind. Her quiet resilience and unique perspective significantly influence the social dynamics around her in subtle but impactful ways.

Eloise Bridgerton is a vibrant, independent young woman who embodies curiosity and defiance. Her quest for intellectual growth and independence defies the conventional norms of her time. With her dynamic personality, memorable dialogues, and expressive delivery, she is a delight to watch and listen to!

Lady Whistledown, the anonymous gossip columnist, stirs intrigue and drama with her sharp and witty commentaries. Her identity remains a closely guarded secret, adding an element of mystery that shapes the show’s narrative in significant ways.

Queen Charlotte is a formidable monarch whose influence extends beyond her royal status. Her pronouncements can make or break debutantes’ prospects, and her complex personality reveals both vulnerability and power, as she struggles with personal battles and the outlook she needs to maintain.

Lady Danbury is an influential figure in society known for her strong presence and keen intelligence. She navigates the social scene with a blend of authority and charm, offering sage advice and unwavering support.

Genevieve Delacroix, the Modiste, is a skilled dressmaker renowned for creating the most exquisite and sought-after gowns in Regency-era London. She is clever and resourceful, deftly maneuvering through the complexities of high society.

Themes That Resonated with Me

The story is of love, misunderstandings, as expected but series carries various themes- love, romance, family friendship, duty, honor, independence, self-discovery, adaptation, gender roles, and societal expectations, changes and challenges specific to that era. We all walk away with different perspectives from the same story, movie and book – here are the deeper messages in the series that resonated with me:

Diversity in its Entirety!

Firstly, the series masterfully showcases diversity and inclusivity (for which surprisingly it has been criticized as well), which almost looks otherworldly. It is a beautiful dream and the harmony of it for sure is to impact the mindset of audience in a positive way. Apart from an exchange between Duke and Lady Danbury (in S1, E1), the mention of the color was almost completely ignored- as if it never mattered in this world! (There is a back story in the prequel, “Queen Charlotte” regarding races but that was not the primary theme of that series). Maybe it is a wishful thinking of a world idealized by Van Dusen, but I loved the re-imagined inclusive version of this history, where races, colors and ethnicities blend effortlessly, without triggering any judgement or scrutiny from elite class to servants, to the point as if everyone seems “color-blind” – and deliciously so. It may be a while that we live in a world that provides the luxury and ability to turn such blind an eye to the races, the depiction of this beautiful thought is truly inspiring. The scenes of people promenading, the ease of interracial match-making, accepting beaux from foreign ethnicities, all came out to life as if in an adult fairy tale. Other than the races, hard of hearing debutante and LGBT society is also featured in few scenes. Kudos to Van Dusen for achieving that (albeit on screen) but we all know the power of media demonstration aka brainwashing.

The Idea of Gender Role Defiance

While Bridgerton cast is full of strong and influential women, it highlights the early stirrings of feminism, in a time before feminism was even a concept. The need to question the standard roles of gender is felt strongly by Eloise Bridgerton in particular, who embodies curiosity and defiance, questioning traditional roles and emphasizing the ideas of personal freedom beyond her sex and self-expression through her desire for intellectual growth and independence. Penelope Featherington, on the other hand represents feminism through her intelligence, resilience, and resourcefulness. She defies societal expectations and creates a powerful role for herself. Her journey underlines the themes of female empowerment and the use of one’s voice and talents to challenge societal constraints.

The Idea of Self-discovery

The theme of introspection is strongly and impressively woven into Bridgerton. Each character’s journey adds depth and richness, transforming the series from merely a romantic and societal tale into a profound exploration of personal growth and self-realization. Daphne Bridgerton navigates her desires and strengths, while the Duke of Hastings explores vulnerability and acceptance. Anthony Bridgerton balances duty with personal happiness, and Eloise Bridgerton challenges gender norms in her quest for intellectual growth and independence. Colin Bridgerton finds purpose through his travels, and Penelope Featherington discovers empowerment in her unique role within society.

Role Of Men in Household and Society

With an array of women leading the show and becoming the main subject, the series does not fall short of the depth and complexity men bring to the plot. While the males enjoy a certain freedom, they face unique challenges, often as family leaders caught between societal expectations and personal desires. Characters like the Duke of Hastings and Anthony Bridgerton wrestle with themes of honor, duty, and vulnerability, enriching the story through their personal growth and romantic entanglements. Their actions and decisions significantly shape the narrative, presenting a nuanced portrayal of masculinity that balances strength with sensitivity. This multifaceted depiction makes the male characters just as compelling as their female counterparts, adding to Bridgerton’s overall charm and appeal.

And so…in Conclusion!

If you love Regency-era, romance, and somewhat not-too-tense plots (although there are some edge-of-the-seat moments), Bridgerton is a good show to watch. Bonus, Bridgerton offers more than just romance, drama, beauty, and decor. It’s a series that combines historical fantasy with meaningful reflections on diversity and the role of women in society and self-discovery. So, if you’re looking for a show that’s both visually stunning and thought-provoking, Bridgerton should be on your watchlist.

Comfort lies in the fact that there will be a Season 4, which is an advantage to the series producers—not sure how I would feel otherwise after completing Season 3! All in all, I can’t wait for the next edition and to regale the stories of the Ton!

Here are some quotes that I really enjoyed, most of them uttered by Eloise, my most favorite character:

And of course, if you like the tea scenes, here is a post for you in which I compiled the favorite tea scenes. Just like the rest of Queen Charlotte and Bridgerton, the china patterns are also not accurate to the time but they fit aesthetics and look lovely.

“There is no such thing as true love without first embracing your true self”. Genevieve Delacroix (Modiste)

“Next time when you compliment a woman, try at least try not to insult her entire sex in the process.” – Eloise Bridgerton

“Indeed. But why should there be limits to a woman’s ambitions? There’s always more to be achieved. It is a fool’s errand to try to make an impression on those in good society who have not a single original thought. And what good is it anyway to make a name for oneself if it is only to be written on dance cards? ” – Eloise Bridgerton

“How should I be? Married and silent?” – Eloise Bridgerton

“I can accept certain mysteries. I may never know how men came to be considered leaders when women are clearly better suited.” – Eloise Bridgerton

“I may never understand why the modiste tortures her own clients with tight bodices and scratchy fabrics.” – Eloise Bridgerton

“I think you should consider yourself uncommonly lucky…you have never been in love.” – Colin Bridgerton (to Eloise Bridgerton)

“Have I not raised you to know that, in this world, it is every person for themselves? Especially amongst women.” – Lady Cowper

You were a girl who did not know her own power. Genevieve Delacroix (Modiste)

Don’t forget to see the post with fanciful tea scenes here in in Queen Charlotte and Bridgerton Series!